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In this photo I did not tuck in my tummy and I still love it. Embrace ya body darling |
Today I want to talk about body Image and why you should be confident and embrace your body.
It’s easier said than
done especially in this insane media world with diverse people who define
beauty by their own standards. It can be very self conflicting to see people
around you or on the internet with banging bodies you could only wish to have.
I believe it happens to the best of us and it’s nothing to be ashamed of but it is something that has to be stopped or at least reduced to the barest minimum.
See eh God created us differently and It’s for a good cause, if everybody had a figure 8 , the world would be a boring place trust me. So understand your body and go with exactly what works for you. It can be a good thing to dress solely according to your body shape but it can be limiting as well, so I’d say wear what makes you comfortable las las everybody will be alright.
Do not let social media intimidate you heck most people put up only the best part or the best angle. I hear face tune is the new plug. So don’t dim yourself over someone’s highlight reel , It’s okay to slay ,me I edit the hell out of pictures sometimes , so just relax you are fine, you are okay . I recently watched a video about young girls talking about body Image Click here to watch, maybe it will encourage you at least you know that you are not alone and most people especially women go through a certain low self esteem phase.
I believe it happens to the best of us and it’s nothing to be ashamed of but it is something that has to be stopped or at least reduced to the barest minimum.
See eh God created us differently and It’s for a good cause, if everybody had a figure 8 , the world would be a boring place trust me. So understand your body and go with exactly what works for you. It can be a good thing to dress solely according to your body shape but it can be limiting as well, so I’d say wear what makes you comfortable las las everybody will be alright.
I have heard people say short girls should not wear long or midi skirts, plus size girls should not wear prints, turtle neck or floral, tall girls should not wear heels. Lol what other silly punch line have you heard?. Note that this is not me telling you to look dishevelled or unstylish. This is me telling you to be free and comfortable and enjoy whatever you like regardless of your body shape okay. I really love Chanel ambrose I have learnt a lot about body confidence from her.
Do not let social media intimidate you heck most people put up only the best part or the best angle. I hear face tune is the new plug. So don’t dim yourself over someone’s highlight reel , It’s okay to slay ,me I edit the hell out of pictures sometimes , so just relax you are fine, you are okay . I recently watched a video about young girls talking about body Image Click here to watch, maybe it will encourage you at least you know that you are not alone and most people especially women go through a certain low self esteem phase.
See digital tummy tuck,I couldn't breathe lol, I love it too..it's never that deep. |
Also, there are lots of people who want to change certain
things about their bodies and that’s beautiful, if you can’t come to terms with
the body you have just do something about it. If you don’t like something you
freaking change it. Do not keep looking and hating yourself, hit the gym, go on
a clean diet or invest in your skin care routine, get down to work and rebuild
your body into that awesome master piece and if it’s plastic surgery you want
to do, by all means carry on but I have one problem with that , please do it
well please I beg you please.
I once saw a lady with a hexagonal bum, like her behind was almost square .People of God save up and do it properly , for crying out loud. There is a thin line between increasing the size of your bum and looking like a kangaroo okay, and your nose must not be as sharp as a double edged sword before you have peace, the nose is for breathing and if you can breathe well then it can only mean that your nose is perfect.I have watched some crazy plastic surgery documentaries and videos,Watch this
Do you but do you well okay. Just to add stretch marks are like tiger strips I find it beautiful and honourable, If you have them like me don’t try to cover it or be ashamed ,It is totally normal
Love yourself because if you don’t you’d be miserable and you won’t even be able to change it, you need to love yourself enough to be consistent and make changes okay. And before you think of changing it, remember you are unique and there is beauty in your difference. Don't compare yourself to others because
body image and the media interpretation of it can be mentally draining,you can Read this article it will encourage you to be more confident in thyself
Listen to me your small boobs are cute, your big boobs are okay, your big belly is fun, your flabby arms will lead you to good places , those tiny legs are fine , everything is okay whether you are big , small, tall, slim, medium anything just know that you are enough and at the end of the day it’s not what size you wear but how you wear your size okay. So give up on your insecurities and go look long and hard in the mirror until you start to see and feel good about your self or perhaps take a selfie and declare to yourself. ‘’I am fearfully and wonderfully made, I am enough and I matter.’’
I once saw a lady with a hexagonal bum, like her behind was almost square .People of God save up and do it properly , for crying out loud. There is a thin line between increasing the size of your bum and looking like a kangaroo okay, and your nose must not be as sharp as a double edged sword before you have peace, the nose is for breathing and if you can breathe well then it can only mean that your nose is perfect.I have watched some crazy plastic surgery documentaries and videos,Watch this
Do you but do you well okay. Just to add stretch marks are like tiger strips I find it beautiful and honourable, If you have them like me don’t try to cover it or be ashamed ,It is totally normal
Love yourself because if you don’t you’d be miserable and you won’t even be able to change it, you need to love yourself enough to be consistent and make changes okay. And before you think of changing it, remember you are unique and there is beauty in your difference. Don't compare yourself to others because
body image and the media interpretation of it can be mentally draining,you can Read this article it will encourage you to be more confident in thyself
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Say nice things to yourself as for I look like a trillion box of vanilla gold..lol |
Listen to me your small boobs are cute, your big boobs are okay, your big belly is fun, your flabby arms will lead you to good places , those tiny legs are fine , everything is okay whether you are big , small, tall, slim, medium anything just know that you are enough and at the end of the day it’s not what size you wear but how you wear your size okay. So give up on your insecurities and go look long and hard in the mirror until you start to see and feel good about your self or perhaps take a selfie and declare to yourself. ‘’I am fearfully and wonderfully made, I am enough and I matter.’’
I love this. Very detailed and enlightening. A lot of people need to read this.
ReplyDeleteYes they need to read.. Tell someone to tell. Someone..
DeleteCheers darling
Nice epistles
ReplyDeleteIt has to become a full time culture in the time to be, most ppl dont know
Yes..and they need to know
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DeleteThis is nice Ms Rose. Keep upπππ
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DeleteThis is really awesome Roseline. The depth and exposure dame great. Keep it up dear. Moreso,it's a topic everyone is shying away from and u are dropping it like its hot.
ReplyDeleteKudos and cheers
Thank you for this feedback.. Simply soothing.. Bless you
DeleteThank you for this feedback.. Simply soothing.. Bless you
DeleteRoseline, firstly, I'll say thank you...I think this article is what I needed. Truthfully, I envy the way you love yourself o, with social media and all, you're strong o. One more person added to my list of role models!.
ReplyDeleteI have a friend that feels her legs are too tiny, one that feels her laps are too big and shapeless (meanwhile I'm bigger than she is o), one that feels she's too skinny, one that feels she's too big, and then there's me too...
But with this now, I think I know what to be saying and also how to be reacting and what to always tell myself...I'm fearfully, beautifully and wonderfully made.. anyone saying otherwise is wrong...
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Yasssss darling.. You are made for more.. Your body is beautiful, their opinion dosen't count.. Feel good about yourself everyday I know it's hard but you can do it, okay.. You are fearfully and wonderfully made.I love you
DeleteYasssss darling.. You are made for more.. Your body is beautiful, their opinion dosen't count.. Feel good about yourself everyday I know it's hard but you can do it, okay.. You are fearfully and wonderfully made.I love you
DeleteNice one girl..embrace yourself
ReplyDeleteThank you!!
DeleteAwesome. We need to start looking at what matters.
ReplyDeleteEnter your comment...roseline this is wonderful. Nowadays many of us, girls, are too selfconscious. Notice of a slight increase in our body size leads to a wave of depression so strong it takes days, a strict diet and vigorous exercise to come out of. ppl need to know dat they can look beautiful if they jst accept their size and find out what fits it. U are beautiful. Never think less of urself. This write up is simply amazing.
ReplyDeleteYes love. .Yes..its hard but it's doable..livie darling.. Thank you for sharing your idea and bullying me into replying your comment
DeleteYes love. .Yes..its hard but it's doable..livie darling.. Thank you for sharing your idea and bullying me into replying your comment
DeleteLovely write up
ReplyDeleteI’m so proud of you. It takes courage to love your body but you are already taking the big step. Love you baby girl - Her Majesty Queen Desiree
ReplyDeleteThank you ππππππππππ so much.so excited you took time out to read
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ReplyDeleteThank you so much, you are blessed for reading!
DeleteI love it...
ReplyDeleteIt is a wonderful topic.
It is a needed topic.
I feel like most girls including myself are struggling with self acceptance and self love...
And It's actually been long I've read something from you...
I like how you still manage to make people or atleast me laugh inbetween the seriousness...
I admire you roseline,I do...
And in some weird way, you inspire me to be a better person...
Anyway, God's grace in your exams ...
I'll be expecting you by november...