Rape should stop


   I deliberately chose not to do any further research or read any article on rape before putting up this post because I want to speak only  my mind, I am not a rape victim but I was very close to being one , on more than two strong occasions. you should continue reading if you want details.
I have also made it a point of duty to spare you the dictionary meaning of rape, I will give you my own meaning of rape , I will tell you what I have called it. 'Rape is a wicked/malicious act of stealing integrity, Identity, pride etc it is the forceful engagement and ownership of a body that is not your's'. OK I promised myself to make this simple,

  So Rape is basically having sexual intercourse with someone without full consent yes full consent. I say this because common sense should tell anyone that mixed signals or reluctance is a red flag , common if she is saying yes and no at the same time bro zip up and bounce. I am particularly basing on the female folk because truth be told they are the main victims of this evil called rape now I had a conversation with a friend and he said ''men are raped too don't make noise as if its only women that suffer it.''
I wanted to be upset because its annoying how its only when we talk about rights for women that some men remember they have been mistreated, They don't talk o until a reasonable person starts a movement against injustice done to women, but i decided to let it go and think of the small percentage of my earthly brothers who have been rape victims. No jokes o  I hear that this rape thing can be common among homosexuals you know , when the small boy say he is not doing again with the big man and he forces him to do. Tufiakwa! The world has spoilt shaa. All I am saying is if they don' give you why the heck should you take it.

  Rape is bad and there is no justification for it see eh even if I choose to walk around naked it is never any goddam bodies business, I mean! nobody should suffer for anybody's lack of self control period you might not agree with me suit yourself though.

I hear some people give sickening illustrations  like if a bank leaves the save open and someone comes to steal their money whose fault is it, let me answer it for them , first of , the the person is a thief ole! and should be punihed c'est fini oh jare, it is not your own in the first place so why take it without permission. Secondly, when are we going to stop comparing women to buildings and inanimate objects for crying out loud the woman/girl is not CBN or Access bank lets have sense please, and before you give the yeye example of Rape is already a problem why put more fire to it by dressing indecently or going to odd places, excuse you!

  we are meant to be concerned about how to stop the rape and rapists not how to stop ourselves from getting raped by the rapists stay woke! I abhor indecent dressing but common we are too intelligent to justify rape by that now , far be it from me and you.its too long aby,stay with me dont go!
rape victims

Rape victims

1. Never blame a rape victim no matter the circumstance surrounding the rape
you have no idea the psychological trauma we go through oops sorry they go through remember I said I had a near experience let me gist you small. Basically I followed this guy to his house,Uncle did not invite me neither did he beg me to come , I just went and he tricked me into believing we were going to hang out immediately as per he was in a hurry to leave his room that let him just get his things ,get fire! brethren I was busy watching MTV shuga on his sleek plasma TV uncle Timini and aunty Jemima them were doing their thing see me watching with keen interest . I was standing up and clutching my bag to my chest btw. so my interest was so keen that I did not realise he had changed to comfortable clothes and he was now on his bed.

 My brothers and sisters I saw him on the bed hissed in my mind and went straight to the door only to realise it was padlocked ,People of God that padlock was huge and the guy was huge and the room was small so there was no space or way I could do inter house sports with him in that room, where will I run too. long story short I sat down humbly on the rug and I played along and by play along I mean I allowed him hold my hands and waist etc then I promised to come back in the evening and sleep over. see eh fashi all my girl power if i did anyhow it would have been a case of rape and domestic violence. My God was awake so the mumu believed me and let me go , He was really forcing himself on me like this guy was ready everything was upright.
God gave me wisdom to handle it , now if he suceeded I would get stupid questions like why did you go there , who sent you , did you send mixed signals,why where you not at home etc you get my point.It is just sad , i'll tell you the second attempt one day just stay tuned to this blog okay.

married women are rape victims too


 Even If you are married or you are dating or both of you have been having sexual intercourse for many years Rape is Rape. The day you say I don't want and your partner forces you, listen to me you have just been raped period. The amount of time you've had sex before is inconsequential don't let anybody convince you otherwise.


Lastly, I want us to be more reasonable and aware when it comes to rape. Lets be more accommodating and empathetic towards this issue and stop making excuses for rapists. Some people think it's fair when a woman is raped if she dresses indecently or is seen at odd places , see eh the length of her skirt should never increase the size of your manhood haba fear God na, Her exposed cleavage is not a clarion call on your self control , lets be sensible please and I do agree that men go through rape too , even by women I can only hope and pray for a better society but truth be told it is more rampant on the part of women.

  The cause of rape is not darkness or alcohol or indecent dressing or whatever , the sole and only cause of rape are the RAPISTS. It is what it is and please stop saying what if she was your sister or daughter or mother It makes it look like she must be related to you in order not to be raped or given Justice, she doesn't need to be your sister all she need to be is a human being. I will probably talk more about this some other time and I know I said or a gazillion times but I hope you get my point  and I want to hear your thoughts too please leave me a comment I'll love to read. Cheers!

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